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Have you ever been at the gym and seen a really unfit looking trainer and wondered where THAT person gets off telling THIS person how to get in shape? Well, between you and me, I think I’m "that unfit trainer" in the world of parenting. As the Managing Editor of Parents Ask, I have access to incredible experts, information, and answers—I have resources on how to/why to parent this way or that way at my fingertips. I hear it. I read it. I know it. Yet, in my own little world of all things cheerios and triple paste, I can’t say that I always look and act the part.
I. Am. The. Fat. Trainer. At. The. Gym.
Like, for example, when Baby-Ko decided to lie on the floor this morning kicking and screaming because I wouldn’t let him open my Lancome Eye Makeup Remover…(oh, you didn’t think I actually removed said makeup from my eyes the night before I was going to reapply to that exact area, did you???) I could have taken a deep parenting breath and pulled from one of my many manuals or mental files and addressed the situation, but instead I blanked out and pretty much stared at him. What was I supposed to do? Surely, ignoring it is one component, but there must be some other magic little trick that GOOD parents know about it, right?
Every now and again, however, I do have a stroke of parenting genius... Like yesterday, when we left a birthday party (and stole a nice Mylar balloon on our way out, clearly not intended as a parting gift)… Just as we got to the car, Baby-Ko let go of the balloon…
Up, up, UP it went…
“Oh, no, mommy! My Balloon! I want it!”
Just in the nick of time, just before an all-out fit erupted and I would have to start wracking my brain for a contact at NASA that might be able to help locate the balloon (because, shit, sometimes temper tantrums are just not that worth it), I said:
“Oh, Baby-Ko! You’re sending the balloon to another birthday party! That’s so nice!”
He looked at me. Please go for it.
“Another boy is going to have a balloon at his house too now!”
“Another boy?”
“Yeah.” Come on, little boy....
“Not Baby-Ko?”
“Not Baby-Ko. You were already at a birthday party. Let’s go home now,” I said trying to change gears… And it worked.
Later that evening, his Grandma came over and ironically, brought a Curious George book that has George letting go of balloons at a park. Proudly, Baby-Ko told us that George (pronounced "Yorge") was sending them to another birthday party too.
The point is, like my friend Sarah Maizes of Mommylite, for most of us, good mommy moments are few and far between. However, on the slight chance that you do consider me an expert and someone with valuable information, I won’t discourage you from believing it or me…. There are some things I know. And at the very least, YOUR abs will be flat for the summer….
3 comments:
As someone who writes to an audience of parents and caregivers, I totally feel for you!
I've even had the balloon fiasco - my son sent his to his angels.
I think that the fact that we are not perfect is what helps people connect with our writing.
Great post. :)
yay you finally blogged! Stop doubting yourself mommy-ko, you are so an expert!
Hey i came across your site though a search..and wow couldnt have agreed more on how to tackle babies whn they throw tantrums. My girl, who is 2 years and 3 months..once went to this party and came back with a mobile phone in her pocket! ouch..! but good that the owner of the phone called up on the cell just before we left the party venue and we saw the cell in her pocket ..ringing! we had to give her..her dad's ipod touch to compensate! :-)
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