September 16, 2013

FALL FASHION SHOPPING AT SEARS!


I am a member of the Collective Bias®  Social Fabric® Community.  This shop has been compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias and their client. #ThisisStyle #cbias

Don’t get me wrong, I love summer and I looooove the summer wardrobe options. But Fall…? Fall is … fall is romantic. Fall is fashion. Fall is an excuse to shop. (I made that one up). But honestly, every year, I flip through the “Must Have Fall Fashion” spreads in the magazines and flag virtually every page. “I muuust have that. I neeeed that. I can’t live withouuuuut that.” I usually allow myself one or two new items (fab boots are always on the list), but this year: Mama’s on a budget… ‘Cuz mama’s getting married!

Yes! I’m engaged! So exciting. But guess what? This means, it’s time to save for the big day… OR my dream honeymoon to Greece/Bora Bora/Italy/Maldives/St. Barths. (BTW, can you just IMAGINE the fabulous outfits for that trip?! Omg!)

But I digress…

There are so many fabulous looks and trends this season and I’m on a mission to rock a few without breaking the bank.  So when I was approached by Sears for this “shoppertunity,” I had to take it!  Some of the emerging trends for Fall are lace, lots of denim (of any kind! Acid washed, printed, floral, etc.), military inspired apparel, and clothing with some edge and details like studs. 

With Fall fashion fresh on my mind, aaaaand the many boards on Pinterest reminding me just how dreamy I could get with this wedding and honeymoon, I headed to my local Sears bright and early with my Venti Bold Drip in tow, to find some affordable and fabulous Fall Fashion. (For my entire experience, check  out my album on Google Plus!) 

I have to say, there were two things that I was really impressed immediately: 1) The jean selection was out of control. Neatly organized (and merchandized), there were piles and displays of every color, every size, every shape- ev.er.y.where.  It truly was a jean scene. 2) The customer service! When I saw a cute jean vest on a manequin and asked the sales woman where I could find it, she said they were out, and without missing a beat jumped up and got it down off the mannequin. Nice!

I had fun trying out a few different styles that were out of my normal fashion zone like flannel mixed with lace, or jeans with wild prints. Ultimately, I settled on a few fantastic looks that I know will carry me throughout the season.  On top of it, I got 4 completely new head to toe outfits (7 pieces of clothing) and I spent a total of $136.13 (Saved 22.04 with my Sears Rewards card, thank you very much!) Not bad right!?



Military Jacket, Kardashian Collection, $46.99 , Cream Tank with Gold Beads, Metaphor, $12.99, Skinny Jeans, Bongo, $14.99



Black Lace Tank, Bongo, $12.99, Skinny Jeans, Bongo (same as above), Bangles, $8.99 each



Two-Pocket Cream blouse, Metaphor, 19.99, Camo Skinny Denim, $19.99, Bangles, same as above



Denim “work shirt” with studs, True Freedom, $18.99, Camo Skinny Denim, Same as above.

Paired with booties, fun bags and cross body purses, I can dress all of these looks up, down and everything in between. I felt so cute and comfortable in everything and can see myself wearing these outfits to school functions, date nights, girls nights, and of course, wedding planning.

What’s on your fall fashion must-have list? I want to hear from you!

To get the latest on affordable fall fashion, follow searsStyle on Twitter and Facebook, and be sure to check my album on Google Plus to see all the photos from my shopping experience at Sears!

September 9, 2013

IMMA BE... 37

My 35th Birthday
Two years ago from this exact weekend, I decided the best way to celebrate a milestone birthday (my 35th) was to do it with a group of my nearest and dearest girlfriends. Using every last bit of my savings -- or checking-- depending on how you look at it, (I admit, not one of my wisest moves), we spent the weekend at a nearby resort in an oceanside villa, drinking, laughing, eating, sunning, toasting, cheers-ing, walking, talking, drinking and taaaaawlking some more. It was my treat. My joy. My pleasure. My honor to spend a weekend with a group of women (including my mom and aunt) who were privy to all my secrets, all my stories, all my dating ups and my dating downs. To make a birthday wish surrounded by my biggest cheering squad was the best feeling in the world. 

That weekend, a bottle of champagne was sent to our room with a note: 
"Is this what old people drink? Happy Birthday. xo, P"

Drinking said Champagne. #Classy 
My girlfriends and I died. P and I had literally just started dating. Not only was this the sweetest and most thoughtful gesture, but the "old people" part was a very clever reminder about our first exchange and that I am, in fact, older than P. (It's okay, we can laugh about it). 

Two years later, P (who we can now call Peter) will become my husband in March.

It's crazy how life works. It's crazy and lucky. And fast. And not always what we think it's going to be.

In just a few days, I will turn 37. This birthday I've decided the best thing I can give to myself is confidence. Stop the bullshit. Stop the unnecessary brain chatter. And just grow up. Be an adult once and for all. As one of my best friend declared, this birthday beckons an important mission: "Operation Grow a Pair." aka OGAP.

Anyone else familiar with this OGAP? Something tells me that if you are in your 30's, it rings a bell. You want to grow up, feel good, and be better. You want to possess the confidence you hear that you finally get to have when you turn 30. Like this automatic switch that is supposed to go on.... Like the one that went on automatically when I turned 14 and I became a raging boy freak and biaaatch. Or the one that went on when I got to college and became entirely invincible (Example: deciding that smoking Parliaments when I had bronchitis was better than smoking Marlboro Mediums. I have a plethora of examples like these but for sake of time, (Remember? I'm on a mission!) I'll leave it to you to let your imagination picture a young Jenny Brandt careless and free, living in New York, backpacking through Europe, etc, etc.

Yep. I remember her.

And guess what... As you might have experienced yourself, the so-called switch - the OGAP switch- doesn't activate automatically.

Apparently, you can't get samples of confidence like you can with Kiehl's eye cream.

It turns out, not only do you have to earn it, but you have to work at it. You have to dig deep. And you have to get out of your own way. And unfortunately, like any good skin regimen, you're supposed to get started earlier than later.

This past weekend, approximately two years after my "old ass" friends and I drank his champagne, Peter and I spent a night down at that same resort. As we walked along the ocean, I couldn't help but acknowledge how far I've come in just 2 years...  how much light has come into my life in just a short amount of time and how lucky I am to start this next chapter with such a great partner. And it's not just me. There's Jonah too.

2 years later and older... same resort. 
While meeting Peter (who we should note is still younger than me), has been the best thing that has happened for me... for us, I realized this weekend that not everything is random. That good things come to those that wait... and work hard. I had a hand in my luck and my fortune. I made choices, decisions and moves. With full consciousness, I opened myself up to a possibility and worked hard to make it a reality - in love, in life, in work, in everything. It's not all just random. I did this.... I got me/us here. 

Holy crap, I'm feeling confident!

Moments later, that Beyonce "We run the world" and Fergie "Imma be the flyest chick- so fly!" feeling faded. But now I know it's there somewhere, and now I know how to find it. Like skin treatment, I shouldn't have waited this long to figure it out or feel good. They call it preventative treatment for a reason; Wrinkles are not easy to get rid of after you've sat in the sun without sunscreen for years. You gotta take care. Nightly. Daily. All the time.

On that note, if anyone wants to know what to get me for my birthday, kindly direct them to the Bloomingdales, Nordstrom, Nieman's etc etc cosmetic department. Or shoe department. Nothing preventative there, just height and hotness... for all ages. 

August 23, 2013

Spice Things Up with a Game Night & California Pizza Kitchen Thai-Style Chicken Pizza!


This post is sponsored by Nestlé, which compensated me to partner with California Pizza Kitchen® frozen pizza and share news about the “Adventures in Entertaining” campaign this summer.


As a person who likes to party and entertain, you can imagine how over the moon I am about the fact that I’m engaged (to the man of my dreams, no less), and get to plan THE party of a lifetime. Weddings are no easy feat. I realize this. However, thanks to Pinterest and all things bridal, I’ve gathered dozens of ideas, inspirations, and, of course, DIY projects that I’m bursting at the seams to do.

The summer is slowly winding down and Jonah is even back to school.  As things start to cool down and I start to dive into my world of all things wedding bells, my fiancé and I thought it would be fun to invite our closest group of friends over for a game night. With my birthday just around the corner, we thought it would be a perfect opportunity to celebrate (moi) and just have fun with some old school board games and delicious food. Can you say Park Avenue and pizza anyone???

To compliment a night of games and light-hearted competition (read: fire and spice. Hey, when I play, I play hard), I’m going to serve California Pizza Kitchen® (CPK) Thai-Style Chicken pizza. I also plan to serve Asian Mojitos and keep dessert light with Coconut Ice Cream and fortune cookies.

Want to host a game night of your own? Check out my tips below:

1. Encourage guests to bring their favorite board games. Once guests arrive, you can even make a game out of choosing which one you'll play! 

2. On game night, there's always a winner! Award the winner(s) with take-home prizes…a gift card to purchase apps, or games for their phone, or even your favorite board game makes a great prize!

3. For fun tablescape decor, place your platters on old board games and stack boxes for food risers. You can glue Scrabble pieces on to note cards or write on playing cards to label food items.

4. "Infusing" your game night with Asian or spicy food? Serve small bites on wonton soup spoons, out of small Chinese food takeout boxes, or lettuce wraps! 

5. Serve spiced or Asian infused cocktails to keep game night spicy and serve with your CPK Thai-Style Chicken pizza!

6. Have an outdoor area? Keep it fun and colorful by filling a galvanized bucket with ice and loading it with your favorite beverages, wrapped with logos of iconic and lovable board games. You can really spice it up by having an area set up to play corn-hole. (Will be a nice break from buying property and "Going to Jail!")

Want more fabulous ideas for entertaining? Head to Pinterest and check out my CPK “Adventures inEntertaining” board! 

August 12, 2013

AFFORDABLE FASHION: BACK TO SCHOOL SHOPPING WITH SEARS!


I am a member of the Collective Bias® Social Fabric® Community. This shop has been compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias and their client. #ThisisStyle  for #backtoschool #cbias

Gulp. My son is going to be a kindergartener. A full-fledged kindergartener! This year, shopping for back to school apparel and items is more poignant and important than ever. Though my son spent last year in Transitional Kindergarten (thank goodness for “red shirting”), this year really counts as “The Year.” It’s go time, for reals, and there’s no turning back. (Sigh). But, lucky for me, I’ve teamed up with Collective Bias and SearsStyle to find the most affordable fashion for my son and even another child in need.

Like most 5-year old boys, my son is growing like a weed. It sees like every few weeks, he needs a new pair of shoes, a new pair of pants, new underpants and always, always, ALWAYS, new socks. (Honestly, when we moved to our new home, they should have told me that there was an evil sock monster that stole socks and made them smaller). Because he’s an active boy (let’s hope he masters the art of “sitting still” in Kindergarten!) I generally look for clothing that is comfortable and durable, but still has an edge and is stylish. Plus, we’re working really hard on encouraging independence…. From bathroom time to getting dressed, it’s important he can do a lot of things on his own. So clothing that he can easily get off and on, but that he feels proud of is equally important. Finally, to me, there is nothing cuter and more functional than a kid in jeans. Durable and easy to clean, I love putting J in jeans but because he grows so fast, it seems like I’m always in need of a pair for him. (My closet… that’s a different story. Can you say #obsessed?)

From the moment I got to Sears though, it was truly a “Jean Scene.” I loved their signage for this campaign and it was evident in the children’s apparel department that they had the denim selection to back up this campaign. There was so much to choose from!  I ended up getting my son two different pairs of Levis because the straight, relaxed fit is hard to find in those washes (My son’s not quite the “skinny jeans” kind of kid.) In an effort to teach him to read and do things on his own, I have labeled his drawers and on school days, I tell him what he needs (“It’s cold! You’ll need long sleeves and pants). He helped me put his clothes away and was quick to remind me how many things he’s outgrown and “are like, kind of baby.”


Trough out the children’s department, there were several “Tee Stop” displays. Almost every super hero imaginable was represented in the beautifully organized piles and mounds of screened tees. For $7.98, they’re really high quality and with graphics I know my son would love (and again, feel totally cool about . These things are talking points with his little buddies after all!) I picked out a cute Batman tee for him and an Iron Man tee to donate. The piece de resistance(s) were the tees for $9.98 that came with a toy. At 5, he’s not going to see “Man of Steel,” but he can certainly wear a Man of Steel tee! Great deal and he was super excited.



In addition to the jeans and tees, I found a few great items like khaki cargo pants with an elastic waist - perfect for hot, back to school months, (annnnnd for the child that never wants to go to the bathroom at school because he’s in a rush to go play with his friends), a striped tee (for “fancy” days”) and an adorable short-sleeve, plaid button down, that came with a coordinating tee shirt. It’s a 2 for the price of one look and it screams first day of school!


I loved seeing his enthusiasm over the super hero/character backpacks that comes with a lunch box. He instantly threw it over his shoulders to see what he’d look like rocking it on our walk to school. It’s big enough for carrying his favorite basketball and bright enough to locate in the cubby round up!


The best part, however, was talking about how there are so many children that don’t get brand new clothes or backpacks to go to school. In fact, his school partners with a school where many families live below the poverty line. Several times through the year, our school donates whatever is left in the lost and found as well a few book drives to help raise money for their school. But Jonah and I wanted to do something different- something special. We contacted the school and asked if we could give a new backpack and tee (a Spiderman Backpack and Iron Man tee to be specific!) to another little boy, just like Jonah, starting Kindergarten. “He’ll feel special because it’s new and he should feel good on his first day of school like me.”


Here’s to making back to school a success!

To get your affordable and style back to school gear, follow searsStyle on Twitter  and Facebook, and be sure to check out all the photos from my shopping experience on my Google Plus album!

July 31, 2013

ROOFTOP SUMMER PARTY WITH CPK


This post is sponsored by Nestlé, which compensated me to partner with California Pizza Kitchen® frozen pizza and share news about the “Adventures in Entertaining” campaign this summer.

About a month ago, we moved from a unit in our building to another unit in our building. The upside to the move: bigger space, extra bedrooms, a chance to start fresh (hello, DIYprojects!), and a gorgeous rooftop deck. The downside to the move: moving. Let’s face it, even if you’re moving 200 feet, moving is tough and requires a lot of planning and patience.

That’s where a good party comes in.

When one thinks of summer, outdoors, and food, the first thing that usually comes to mind is a good ol’ barbecue. So as part of my Adventures in Entertaining campaign with California Pizza Kitchen frozen pizza (CPK ), I thought nothing could be better than hosting a summer rooftop BBQ party, not only to give me some serious motivation to get those boxes unpacked and pictures hung, but also, of course, to celebrate the season and our new home!

Just like the wine and pizzapairing party, all guests had to do was come hungry and thirsty. From the beginning, I wanted guests to get a sense of the airiness that you feel on our rooftop deck and set the stage for some of the vibrant colors that would be displayed throughout the event. So I opted for this beautiful custom built invitation from Paperless Post. On the “envelope” for guests, I made sure to include names of children as well so that guests knew that this was a fun family event for everyone.


We live in a three-story townhome and the rooftop deck is off the den on the third story. Instead of having guests trek up and down the stairs for food and drink, I opted to put two long tables against each wall outside, one for food and one for drinks. I wanted to create a real summer, country BBQ feel so I purchased some blue and white kitchen towels as well traditional red and white tea/kitchen towels. I simply sowed them all together at the ends. I used leftover towels to line baskets for chips and bread rolls.


Using canvas, burlap, red twine, and red stamped letters from a stencil, I created a garland that hung from the wooden rafts on our deck, below the string lights, so guests could get into the entertaining and party mood immediately with CPK pizza. I also found an old box at a flea market recently, which I filled with succulents and placed it in the middle of the table. This made a great focal point and helped tie in the casual, country feel that I was going for.


On a hot day, nothing is more important than making sure your guests stay hydrated. I filled three big, clean galvanized buckets with ice. In one, we filled two with sparkling, flavored waters and sodas in old- fashioned bottles and in the other bucket we filled with beer. (It is a BBQ!)

On my drink station table, covered with the blue cloth, I set out mason jars, tied with red and white baker’s rope and a tag. I created a sign with natural cardstock and a mason jar stamp that instructed guests to take a cup and write their name on it.

Next to the sign, which I placed in a vintage wooden frame, I filled an aqua tin with pastel-colored striped and dotted straws (that coordinated with the colors on the invite). I put cut-up limes in a plastic tray with a checkered liner and had a corkscrew handy for beers and bottles. Finally, all good hostesses have to have their “signature” move, so much like my wine and pizza pairing party, I “put a stamp” on my party must-do by stamping the beverage napkins with my mason jar stamp.



To keep the cocktails light and summery, I served cucumber margaritas and a vodka strawberry lemonade. To make the margarita, I simply used a premade margarita mix and added cucumber juice (oh, do I love my juicer!) and fresh sliced cucumbers. For the vodka cocktail, I juiced about 15 lemons (oh, yes), a bottle of vodka (double yes), club soda, some agave nectar, and sliced strawberries. The combination was divine! I served the drinks out of hammered glass beverage servers and used a chalkboard label as a tag with twine to let guests know the goodness they were getting. I, of course, had a water station available for the non-drinkers and kiddies.




Much like the hanging garland and lights, I think it’s important that parties have high and low focal points. And since eating is pretty important at a BBQ, I opted to hang a bulletin board with a rustic frame from one of my posts next to the buffet. Using the same cardstock as the cocktail station and a different stamp (I’m seriously thinking this might be my signature!), I pinned the menu to the board.


I wanted guests to feel like they could graze all night, so I set up a small table under the menu, next to the buffet, encouraging guests to enjoy the delicious food Instead of plates, I opted for old-school red plastic diner baskets and checkered-paper liners. Both easy to clean and pretty green as you can reuse the baskets, this was such a cute touch and made it really easy for guests to eat.

To include the pops of color from the invitation and coordinate with the décor and accents on my own rooftop, I decided to take function a step further by painting the ends of wooden utensils with acrylic paint.  Once dry, I put the utensils into large mason jars next to the baskets. Though totally easy and DIY-able, this was definitely a “hands on” and somewhat time-intensive project... But, I can hardly complain as it gave me an excuse to get crafty for two Mondays for about two hours while I watched “The Bachelorette.” Plus, I think little details like these make a difference at a party. Would you offer me the final rose? Ha, ha…


As the breeze upstairs started to set it, and guests enjoyed their cocktails, I had the main attraction “brewing,” or shall, I say “bubbling…” Hot CPK BBQ Recipe Chicken Pizzas. This pizza is a crazy good combo of BBQ sauce, smoked gouda, mozzarella, and grilled chicken. Perfect addition to a rooftop barbecue!



I found pizza-parlor type, round tin trays and topped them with checkered lining. To serve them, (because I knew they’d go fast and didn’t stand a chance in the buffet line!), I placed the trays on a rustic looking box with a chalkboard cut out, which I labeled. And as I mentioned… the pizzas were a hit.




No meal is complete without something sweet… Especially when there are ten children running about. As a sidenote, this is what my son’s room looks (?)like… and what my office looked like while all the rooftop party was underway. (No décor tips on this one, folks. Thank god for cocktails). 

But I digress… back to dessert…

I set up a dessert station and since social media is an obvious theme for this campaign and, well, my life, I called it the “Summertime Tweets N’ Sweets” station and carried the “tweet” theme through by stamping the napkins with “@.” (Oh, how I love to stamp!) Instead of traditional paper plates, I used plain craft food trays to make it easy to eat all the delicious desserts, including good ol’-fashioned vanilla ice cream and because they’re super cute and fit with the backyard/country feel I was going for.


Instead of party favors where I gave guests something to take home, we asked our guests to leave us a treat as a sort of a housewarming gift. Next to the sweet station, I used mini cloths pins to hang a bunch of leftover paint swatches from our move (hey, I had a tough time deciding!) I then asked guests to take a picture of themselves and pin to one of the paint chips (hopefully they took less time to decide on a color than we did). This was a fun element and by the end of the evening, we had a slew of photos that totally captured our first rooftop party in our new home!


Nothing sets a mood more than the perfect lighting… So, as the sun began to set, the flickering lights from our lanterns and string lights gave our rooftop a beautiful glow and made it feel like a true summer party.


All in all, this was one of the most memorable parties I’ve ever thrown and every detail added to the specialness of the occasion and the spirit of summer!

For more entertaining ideas and inspirations, check out my tips on the CPK Facebook and Pinterest pages!